you have never been more humiliated in your life.
Everyone around you is dressed up so nicely,
yet here you are, naked as the day you were born,
on hands and knees, sucking on a leather shoe.
They aren’t even using you for sexual pleasure.
you are here simply to entertain and amuse them.
It would be different if they had their cocks out.
Everything would change if they started fucking you.
But that won’t happen. It’s been made clear.
These fine people won’t be lowering themselves,
not this evening, not just to use your holes.
So you will continue to debase yourself,
following their humiliating commands,
blushing in shame as they laugh at you.
Not just because of the tasks you perform,
but because everyone can see that you are so wet,
your dripping all over the floor….
What's the difference between bdsm and abuse relationship ... People who didnt know bdsm say that it's abuse r'ship
A caring, respectful, and consensual relationship versus… not.
You and my Daddy are so insanely alike...
insane? who is insane? maybe we are the same person… the same insane person…
Would you be willing to train someone who has a boyfriend and hasn't done anything like this before?
Yes, but I would expect you to bring your boyfriend in on it.
I’m sure he wouldn’t mind you dropping to the floor in front of him and edging for his enjoyment simply because I told you to. ;-)
I know you said you won't train some who cuts, but would to train someone who use to selfharm
I have and will, though at the moment My time is slim and growing slimmer so I am not actively seeking another trainee.
I see the term "earn submission" a lot and was wondering, what do people mean by it and how do they go about it? I know submission is given willingly. Sorry for such an ignorant question!
I wouldn’t call it ignorant.
It’s a phrase that is tossed around a lot, and many, especially would be dominants may not understand what it means. Also, it may mean different things to different subs.
For example, a masochistic would be slave may want someone incredibly brutish, confidant, perhaps cruel and would want to see that in their potential partner and require that to have their submission earned.
A little who wants a loving and respectful partner though, may not care for that in the slightest.
The way I interpret it is as a simple warning. No Dominant should simply ‘expect’ submission from someone simply because they label themselves submissive.
They may be a submissive, but it is their choice whether or not they become ‘your’ submissive.
What are your thoughts on itching powder? Is it safe? How does it compare to ginger? What's your experience/fantasy with it? Thanks for assisting the curious.
I have none, actually.
I don’t think I personally would ever use it. It sounds more annoying than anything else which isn’t what I’m going for.
I would also have to wonder about itching and rashes and in general it sounds like it’s more trouble that it’s worth.
But that’s the thoughts and opinion of one who has never used it nor even considered it. So take it with some salt.
How do you "train"?
That depends on the victim… I mean, trainee…
Generally, when I ask them about what they hope to learn or experience, it is about control. They want to know what it is like to have to answer to someone.
So I will set things such as a bed time, a wake time, sending a picture at each so that I can see they are up or going to bed.
Some have asked that I control their diet in one way or another which is more difficult, but usually comes down to a few rules to follow.
Of course their orgasms become Mine, as part of the payment for training. From that point on they must get My permission to orgasm, which always comes at a cost, be it a task, or a good grade on a test, or even just being on their best behavior for a good long while.
But it all depends on the interests they express. If for example a trainee is interested in verbal humiliation, My email correspondence would become quite aggressive.
If they expressed an interest in pain, then daily, or bi-daily tasks, whatever time allows, would have the trainee whimpering during available moments.
Perhaps their interest is in physical humiliation. In which case rules such as eating all private meals on the floor like a dog could come into play.
It is all about allowing the trainee to experience just a little of their fantasies.
Which kind of music do you listen to? Is there any kind of special music sadistic people are listen to? Is there any favored music direction or is it just important what the song is about? If so, what's it about, for example? Sorry for my bad englisch I'm from norway! Thanks for your answer!
Outside of a scene I listen to everything. My girl especially listens to a huge variety and actually knows who We are listening to, but I simply enjoy all types of music, even if I don’t keep track of who is who.
When in a scene, I usually put on something relaxing like Celtic. Lately I’ve just put “dark celtic” into youtube and it’s given Me some long videos that fit rather nicely.
So you started out as a submissive? Would you ever switch again?
I did, and I still switch to this day. I was fortunate to find a partner that, while being a submissive, is perfectly happy to play the Dominant role from time to time for fun.
Though I sometimes suspect it’s mostly just to take advantage of a talented tongue… ;-)