No, I’m not lording over you.
No, I’m not making you stay in your place on the floor.
No, I’m not pinning you in the corner.
I’m shielding you.
I’m standing against the world for you.
I’m holding everything that could hurt you away from you.
I will continue to do everything I can to protect you physically, mentally, and emotionally, shielding you with everything that I am.
Dear Sir. Kind of a long question. I have been married to the same fine man for 31 years. And we still enjoy each other plenty. But we are about to be empty nesters and I want him to take more control of things not just in our sex live but with everything. We both have high demanding jobs but being "mom" I just handled most everything and I am tired. It's his turn. How do I approach This with him
First, get out of the “it’s his turn” mindset.
It isn’t about taking turns, it’s about doing what you both enjoy, having fun, and respecting one another.
If you go into this feeling like you are owed something, expect to be disappointed.
Second, start a blog and treat it like a diary. What do you want? What do you want to happen on a daily basis?
Do you want him to tell you how to dress? How to eat?
Do you want weekly assignments? Chores around the house?
Because if you go to him and tell him you want him taking control, but then cannot put into words exactly what you want, you will hit a snag.
So, once you’re in the mindset of wanting to have fun with your partner, and you have figured out and put into words what you want, it’s as simple as talking to him.
Show him your blog, ask him about his fantasies, and discuss how this could work for the both of you.
I would also recommend a trial period or several, because fantasy and reality can be quite different and you may wish to change things up after the first week of scrubbing floors on your hands and knees.
How did you propose to your wife? :)
After a dentist visit when I decided I needed to get her on My insurance.
Marriage wasn’t a big thing for Us. We knew We would be together, We already lived together, so marriage was just to make taking care of Her easier.
Hey, lately every time I've orgasmed, I've started crying in extreme amounts. Is there any way to stop this from happening? thanks :)
Not that I know if. It’s adrenaline.
If My girl isn’t crying when I’m done I don’t feel like I made her cum enough. ;-)
It isn’t because she is upset, or hurt, it’s just that her adrenaline is going, every inch of her is on fires, every touch amplified, and a final stroke of her clit could make her scream. It’s perfect. :-D
It's incredibly hard to Domme effectively while wearing a onesie.......
I would never put anything past anyone.
I could totally see some little on little D/s action.
If nothing else, come on, they’re comfy!
Are you reposting things? I could of sworn I seen some of these posts before. Then again I might be losing my mind.
Yup, I went back a year or so and took some old posts and added them to My queue. Figured some of the newcomers would enjoy them, as I know people don’t tend to go trolling through the archives.
Well… not many trolls anyway…
How old was your girl when you met?
I have always loved the idea of giving up control so completely that I lose myself totally, even if only for a moment. However, I worry that these are dangerous and/or unhealthy thoughts.
This is by far not an uncommon desire. There truly is a freedom in submission. By giving up control, you free yourself from responsibility.
Many submissives want to enter subspace and just go further and further each time. The desire to be used, to be objectified, to be taken for the pleasure of another, even if just for a short time, can be quite powerful.
For the Dominant as well it’s a total power trip, and there lays your answer. Who is your partner? Do you trust them with your life? Do they know how to bring you safely back from that high? Do they practice aftercare? Do they know you well enough to keep you safe, both physically and mentally?
Interest in any kink can be dangerous with the wrong partner.
With the right partner though, they sky is the limit. Though really, you’ll probably never want to leave the dungeon…
What are some good punishment for a girl who cums without permission?
That depends on how you have things set up.
For example, I tend to allow My trainees to play with themselves, but I do not allow them to orgasm.
If they break that rule, they loose the privilege of playing with themselves at all until they earn it back.
Another option is to punish the offending cunt, so flogging or paddling their cunt, especially right after they have just cum and it’s extremely sensitive.
Finally, coating their fingers in fresh ginger and then ordering them to finger themselves to another orgasm can be quite amusing.
Go inside and take a seat, We will be in to start the interview shortly.
These were the only words said when she arrived and was sent into the otherwise empty room.
There was no question what was expected of her. Raising her dress and and taking her seat, she immediately felt both embarrassed and excited.
The interview hadn’t even started yet, and here she was, impaled on a fake cock, her juices already soaking the seat as she thought of what was to come…