Sadistic-Games

That depends on the goal in mind. 

If you just want the sub to be wet and ready when you get home, have them start edging 15 minutes before you arrive. 

If you desire is more along the lines of keeping them aroused and submissive as much as possible, have them edge three times a day. Morning, lunch, and before bed. 

Another way to go about it is to have them edge all evening long while you go about your usual business and although they are allowed to beg you for an orgasm they must make an offer each time. 

It’s amazing how crazy those offers can become by the time they have edged six or more times in a single evening only to be denied each time. 

I have two posts that I believe are relevant here. 

http://sadisticgames.tumblr.com/post/34083156742/use-your-words-a-dominant-cannot-always-read

http://sadisticgames.tumblr.com/post/45966240650/anon-asked-how-do-i-go-about-asking-for-a

The only real video site that I’m a fan of off the top of My head is Kink.com

I wish I had their toys and resources. 

Maybe some day…

Then ya’all will be in some trouble. ;-) 

So many definitions depending on who you ask…

With Me, it’s generally fucking with a sub’s mind/imagination by making them think that something bad/painful/humiliating is coming. 

For example, binding a sub who only has one on one experience, blindfolding them, and then using an audio file or something to make the sub think that someone else is there. 

It’s all safe and private, but in their head they are freaking out. ;-) 

Even just using sensory deprivation and letting a sub’s mind run rampant in their seclusion can be a mind fuck. 

But, that is just My definition. 

That sort of bondage isn’t for everyone. 

BDSM is like most things, in that it isn’t black and white. 

No one assumes that if you are into BDSM then that means you are into all of it. 

I’ve known couples who didn’t play with any sort of bondage at all, preferring instead to have the submissive exercise self control during both pain and pleasure.

Short answer? Yes, yes you could. ;-)

Sometimes, rather than binding someone and doing something to them, it can be even more arousing to simply give them a command, sit back, and watch them do it to themselves just because you told them to. 

There is a large following of people who have a huge fetish for girls that squirt. 

I for one consider it a compliment when a girl squirts. ;-)

In any case, no reason to be self conscious. 

My girl and I don’t hide anything from each other, which would be obvious to anyone had they ever hear one of Our road trip conversations. 

I believe this is the reason We haven’t had any trust issues. 

With as open as We both are, I can’t imagine what sort of trust issues We could have. 

I would never leave My girl bound in any way alone even for a moment. 

I make sure I have everything I need in the room with Us before starting any sort of bondage play. 

Now, there isn’t any reason that she has to know I haven’t left…

Blindfold and headphones make for a fun guessing game. 

As for the multiple orgasms it depends on the person. When your talking hours you may need to be sure to hydrate them from time to time. 

Also keep in mind that if you are going to rely on just a vibrator they may go numb to it after a bit. 

After a little digging I came up with a few links. One of which is one that I remembered from years back. It’s how to make a tail plug from craft supplies.

http://www.aigando.com/Vet-toko-garo4-e.html

Then there is a guide for if you already have a plug.

http://kittenplay.net/kitty_gear/tail.html

And a great site that sells a wide variety of fuzzy gear. 

http://www.kittencream.com/index2.html