What is breath play? Love the blog xx
Everything from chocking…
to gagging on a cock…
to total submersion.
If you thinking giving someone control over your orgasms in crazy, imagine giving them control over your breathing.
Now, different people are attracted to this fetish for different reasons.
For Me it’s control, a sub giving up control to Me, showing Me absolute trust.
If you do a google search you will come up with this as well.
“Erotic asphyxiation or breath control play is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal.”
you may not cum in the same place twice.
you may not cum using the same object twice.
I wonder just how creative your slutty little mind can be…
I'm going to get a belt whipping soon and i'm scared and excited at the same time. Do you have any advice for me; having a low threshold of pain yet wanting to try?
Head over to goodwill and look for a wide belt of soft leather, well worn without sharp edges.
Remember that you have a safe word if/when you need a break or to stop completely.
Communicate with your partner, take things slow, and you may find yourself quite enjoying it and asking for more. ;-)
You give great advice so I figured this would be worth a shot. I'm a girl and I'm constantly masturbating. I have the most intense orgasms and a ton of sex toys that sometimes allow me to squirt. Whenever I have phone sex with another or I do things over Skype, I can not orgasm. I never could while having sex with my ex girlfriend either. My legs will shake and my cheeks and body feel numb but it never happens. It's a really strange feeling and I know I'm not nervous so why isn't it happening?):
I’ve seen that happen many times. I’ll give a trainee permission to orgasm, provided they can do so on cam. They will try and try… yet be unable to finish.
Some people just can’t go with an audience, at least, not without plenty of practice and patience.
It’s like not being able to pee with someone watching you…
Hi Sir. I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and I rlly love oral sex, giving and receiving. However, my current partner refuses to perform oral sex on me because he doesn't like the taste, but he expects me to blow him. Do you think it's ok for him to expect oral sex but not give it in return?
I so want to be your best friend. And your fuck toy. Please Sir.
My bf isn't interested in exploring bdsm am I an asshole for bringing it up every once in awhile bc I really enjoy it and love being owned
If your an asshole for making what you want known, then We can be assholes together!
What your doing is communicating what you want to your partner. The very thing I am constantly preaching on this blog.
yogapantstank said: There’s another consideration here, though. The bf has also made it known what he wants, which is not to explore bdsm. There comes a point when yes, you are an asshole to keep bringing it up. The bigger issue is whether or not you should be together.
SG: Yeah, that’s a valid view as well. It depends on a lot of things, details of which We do not have.
Can you explain the needle through your dick experience?
When I was a sub back in the day I was open to anything, wanting to experience everything, and I had a partner for a while that was into needle play and so of course I experienced it.
But as I said, lot of prep, have to be really careful, keep everything sterile, and then there is clean up after, making sure nothing gets infected.
Just, too much work for too little result for Me.
And yes, I’m adding a gif just to make some of you squirm. :-D
Hey SG! I really love Your blog. I discovered it a few days ago and found myself scrolling forever. And ever. Thanks for being such an informative sadist 😍.
What is blood play?
It is, to Me, one of those kinks not worth the prep, caution, and cleanup.
But, that’s Me, and I don’t have any interest in blood or breaking of the skin in any fashion.
I’ve had a needle through My dick and it was.. meh.
I’m just not the person to ask about this particular fetish. I’ve never had an interest.