I warned you that cumming without permission would be punished.
It’s a shame you couldn’t keep your hands away from your cunt.
Though it is a pleasure for Me, watching you whimpering in pain.
How long do you have to keep the clip in place?
I don’t know, how long do you think it will take for you to learn?
The last time I left it on for a mere fifteen minutes.
Obviously that didn’t teach you, so lets at least double it shall we?
That was about a ten minute shower, now go start dinner.
Perhaps I’ll let you remove it after We eat.
Oh that little shudder was delightful My girl…
Hello! I absolutely love your blog! So i have recently introduced edging do you have any good suggestions for couples to start with?
That depends on the goal in mind.
If you just want the sub to be wet and ready when you get home, have them start edging 15 minutes before you arrive.
If you desire is more along the lines of keeping them aroused and submissive as much as possible, have them edge three times a day. Morning, lunch, and before bed.
Another way to go about it is to have them edge all evening long while you go about your usual business and although they are allowed to beg you for an orgasm they must make an offer each time.
It’s amazing how crazy those offers can become by the time they have edged six or more times in a single evening only to be denied each time.
hi, in Your answer to the Domme who asked about Her sub acting up to receive punishment, You said it's okay to ask respectfully to play. i'm a new sub with a new Dom. i love to play, to struggle, to be punished. i think i have been "topping from the bottom." i don't want to do this. i really *want* to be good. i didn't know i was allowed to ask to play. When/what is the best way to do this?
I have two posts that I believe are relevant here.
Do You watch BDSM videos to get in the mood or to get any fresh ideas? If yes, which ones do you like and on what sites do You watch them? I just want a bit of inspiration, but I'm not a fon of porn, so I don't know where people watch it :(
I'm newish to BDSM and I keep hearing about mindfucks. What exactly are they?
So many definitions depending on who you ask…
With Me, it’s generally fucking with a sub’s mind/imagination by making them think that something bad/painful/humiliating is coming.
For example, binding a sub who only has one on one experience, blindfolding them, and then using an audio file or something to make the sub think that someone else is there.
It’s all safe and private, but in their head they are freaking out. ;-)
Even just using sensory deprivation and letting a sub’s mind run rampant in their seclusion can be a mind fuck.
But, that is just My definition.
I'm claustrophobic is there anyway that I could prosper in this community. Seeing that girl bonded in that full sleeve and mouth cover is a turn on but it's hard to watch like ill be having a panic attack but I can't tell stop or release me you know
That sort of bondage isn’t for everyone.
BDSM is like most things, in that it isn’t black and white.
No one assumes that if you are into BDSM then that means you are into all of it.
I’ve known couples who didn’t play with any sort of bondage at all, preferring instead to have the submissive exercise self control during both pain and pleasure.
Short answer? Yes, yes you could. ;-)
Sometimes, rather than binding someone and doing something to them, it can be even more arousing to simply give them a command, sit back, and watch them do it to themselves just because you told them to.
I've recently been experimenting with penetration with toys. I learned the hard, and messy way, that I am a squirter. Should I be self conscious about this? I can't help but feel it's just messy..
There is a large following of people who have a huge fetish for girls that squirt.
I for one consider it a compliment when a girl squirts. ;-)
In any case, no reason to be self conscious.
Have you ever had trust issues with Your girl? if so, even after communicating them how did You Yourself handle it ?
My girl and I don’t hide anything from each other, which would be obvious to anyone had they ever hear one of Our road trip conversations.
I believe this is the reason We haven’t had any trust issues.
With as open as We both are, I can’t imagine what sort of trust issues We could have.
Is it safe to make a girl orgasm multiple times, for hours? I've always had this fantasy of tying a girl down, with a vibrator on and in her vagina. And leaving her there for hours to orgasm over and over again, only to pop in once and awhile to observe.
I would never leave My girl bound in any way alone even for a moment.
I make sure I have everything I need in the room with Us before starting any sort of bondage play.
Now, there isn’t any reason that she has to know I haven’t left…
Blindfold and headphones make for a fun guessing game.
As for the multiple orgasms it depends on the person. When your talking hours you may need to be sure to hydrate them from time to time.
Also keep in mind that if you are going to rely on just a vibrator they may go numb to it after a bit.
Sir, I've recently found my Dom taking an interest in animal anal plugs. I'd like to surprise him by taking the time to make my own. Do you have any suggestions or sites you might suggest?
After a little digging I came up with a few links. One of which is one that I remembered from years back. It’s how to make a tail plug from craft supplies.
Then there is a guide for if you already have a plug.
And a great site that sells a wide variety of fuzzy gear.